Based out of Sydney, Australia, Meshki has become increasingly well known as a power player among other fast fashion brands (their largest competitors would be the UK brands House of CB and Oh Polly to name a couple). The unique part about Meshki’s branding is how they have cultivated an aesthetic – from the moment that I saw their Instagram page, I noticed that there is a specific aesthetic that they have done an incredible job at cultivating. Celebrities like Ariana Grande, Kim Kardashian, Kylie Jenner, and Modern Family‘s Ariel Winter are catching on and have worn pieces from their collections. The bottom line is – if you’re going anywhere for New Year’s Eve, make sure to find a piece from Meshki, because they no doubt have you covered with the NYE glam look.

It’s truly amazing what you can find on Instagram.  Hailing from Albania, Valdrin Sahiti is known there for creating amazingly luxurious designs, the form so large, that its presence cannot be mistaken – and yet, he does an incredible job of integrating detail that emphasizes the female form.  His bridal dresses are particularly stunning.  He has boutiques in New York, Brussels, Dubai, Kuwait, and Qatar… and I wouldn’t be surprised if these designs appeared more frequently on the red carpets in Hollywood sooner than later…  (American female rapper Cardi B has already picked up on him and is a huge fan of his designs!) 

Nike is the Greek Goddess of victory.  Her Roman counterpart is Victoria.  The presence of victory culture is incredibly important in popular culture, and in culture more generally.  Growing up in the San Francisco Bay Area, I was often at Union Square growing up.  There is a monument with a small woman atop of it in the center of Union Square: that is the Dewey Monument, a monument to commemorate Admiral George Dewey and his victory in the Battle of Manila Bay during the Spanish-American War.  The small woman atop of it is the Goddess of Victory.  It has been in the center of Union Square since 1903. 

I find it ironic that stores flanking Union Square include the athletic giant Nike (named after the Goddess of Victory) and Victoria’s Secret, which is most notable for their famous Victoria’s Secret Angels, known for wearing angel wings during their annual fashion show.  It’s as if the homage to Nike is now through the consumerism of these brands and the values that they represent, which is actually no small feat since Victoria’s Secret and Nike are arguably the more powerful movers and shakers in a global apparel industry. 

In Greek mythology, Nike is usually depicted in the hand of Zeus or Minerva.  Nike and her siblings were close companions of Zeus as the myths go, and Nike was known for flying around battlefields and rewarding the victors with glory and fame.  This is not unlike the way in which J.K. Rowling depicts the Golden Snitch ball in the game of Quidditch in Harry Potter. 

The importance of victory is valued in society and inherent to that value set is a worship of the ways in which victory can be seen out.  Moreover, there is a protective aspect of Nike in how she presents herself.  A couple more representations of angelic style have been worn at Miss Universe for the national costume portion of the show in the past.  In 2010, Miss USA Rima Fakih wore a costume as the national seal, and in 2015, Miss USA Olivia Jordan wore a costume of a bald eagle that gave similar undertones to outfits worn by Victoria’s Secret Angels. 

There is another angel who presents herself in a yearly fashion: Christkind comes to children as a gift giver in Austria and around Europe for Christmas rather than Santa Claus.  For me, I always thought Christkind was an incredibly magical figure, and I still think she is.  Christkind is an angelic representation of the Christ child, but she is also a reminder of the magic of angels and how they are correlated with victory.  Angels are truly our protectors. 

The term I’m referring to is complex.  Women today, more than ever, are empowered to be who they want to be and voice what they believe.  Truly, how is that precedent even the standard for what women should be happy with?  That’s why we still have a long way to go.  The term “Post-Feminist” is absolutely misleading.  In the world of feminism, it refers to a time after the 1970s saw a renaissance in feminist dialogues, but truly, we are not in a post-feminist world.

Attempts to dispell how women express themselves can be seen in how women perceive the way in which they should express themselves in relation to how other women express themselves.  This leads to how women see the impact of their objectification.  I am well aware that female objectification is still a prevalent issue in society and we must continue to grapple with that.  Kim Kardashian is a great example of this, she is aware of her own objectification, and yet continues to build upon this by feeding into what the public wants to see.  She has been criticized for that.  I would like to propose that we must go beyond constantly questioning the choices of women and taking a stance in trying to empathize more.  From a vantage point of empathy is where we can begin to affect the most change we want to see in the world.

Emily Ratajkowski, a vocal proponent for the furthering of feminist dialogues in today’s world stated in an article to Vogue Australia: “The only argument that I think is sort of interesting is the conversation that somehow I’m playing into a patriarchal society by looking the way I look and capitalising on my sexiness,” she says with a shrug. “But I don’t really care if me wearing a crop top is somehow playing into some patriarchy, because it makes me feel good about myself, and I shouldn’t be limited on that. Making rules as to what a feminist should look like or wear is insane to me.”  Her openness to explain the logic of her decision making is powerful, but the world in which I want to see if I have a daughter someday is one in which they should never even have to feel like they need to explain themselves, because they are accepted for the decisions that they make and they are not questioned for it because they are a woman.

If we continue on a road of questioning the way in which women choose to express themselves, we continue down a road of sidelining women.  Now, more than ever, we need women leaders around the world and we need to empower women to feel strong enough to do that.  As Emma Watson put it, feminism is a choice, and that’s powerful.

A rose is a rose is a… Miss USA?  Miss USA 2018, Sarah Rose Summers has gone ahead and competed in the Miss Universe pageant wearing a rose as her national costume this year.  Miss Summers opted for an homage to her middle name and the national flower of the US, which was fantastic choice, of course.  Wearing a white rose on her wrist was to highlight the #MeToo movement and how the social movement has been the most successful social movement in her lifetime thus far.  The national costume segment of the Miss Universe pageant has arguably become the most enticing part of the show – it’s along the lines of an even bolder version of the Victoria’s Secret fashion show.  Bravo to Miss USA this year, that was an ideal choice.

I was struck by the musical combination of U2, Brian Eno, and Luciano Pavarotti and how the vast differences in musical style very much complimented the other.  The tragedy that happened in the Siege of Sarajevo between 1992 – 1996, was touchingly conveyed in the 1995 U2 and Brian Eno song “Miss Sarajevo” where Pavarotti sings the opera solo.  Bono considers this to be his favorite song, and perhaps his magnum opus.  This song is a poignant reminder of the need for peace on earth.  May you all have peace this holiday season.

There are four Sundays before Christmas, and the lead up to the holiday in the Catholic faith includes celebrating this with the tradition of Advent.  This is accompanied by an Advent wreath with candles, and each Sunday, a candle is lit to celebrate the time before Jesus’ birth.  I am not usually one to profess much religiosity in a public forum, but I find that it’s been too often that I have Catholic friends who are no longer celebrating with the Advent wreath.  In my formative years, my memories of Advent are truly some of the fondest memories that I have from the Christmas season.

I think taking time on Sunday evenings to reflect on the season and what the season truly represents is incredibly important in connecting with the basic values of Christmas: faith, hope, love, joy, gratitude, and the sophistication that simplicity can have.  Celebrating Advent each Sunday before Christmas with tea and Lebkuchen is a time for families to cherish being together and foster a shared love of the season.

 

 

 

One of the largest barriers, perhaps the largest barrier, for the spray tan industry is the chemical formulas that are downright unhealthy and unnecessary, especially when the look is less bronze and more Crayola orange.  Personally, I’ve never had a spray tan, and I am perfectly happy with my fair complexion, but after stumbling across this brand based out of San Francisco, and now the hippest bronzing spot in Los Angeles, I thought I’d spread the word further.

In a short time, Organic Shimmer has acquired quite the following from models like Mara Teigen to Lindsey Pelas to former Miss California USA Mabelynn Capeluj, all of these ladies have been worshiping Organic Shimmer’s all-natural spray tan formulas.  Best of all, the look is actually quite bronze in the right way.  Whether you are in SF or LA, this is definitely the go-to place to bronze if you simply must get a spray tan for a special event.  A good rule of thumb though: never go for a first time immediately before your event, and make sure that the shade you choose is ideal for your skin shade.  It’s always better to be safe than sorry.

Nothing generates more enthusiasm in me than a passion for roses.  The perfection of the rose is fascinating in all of its states, and as writer Paulo Coelho puts it, “The rose is a rose from the time it is a seed to the time it dies. Within it, at all times, it contains its whole potential. It seems to be constantly in the process of change: yet at each state, at each moment, it is perfectly all right as it is.”  Perfectly put, and a lovely way of defining the state of change, because through a rose’s lifespan, you see how change can be for the good.

Roses are emblematic symbols as well.  The rose is the national flower of America (hence why Miss America always accepts the crown with a bouquet of red roses) and the New Year is rung in with the Tournament of Roses (Rose Parade) in Pasadena, California each year, symbolizing the timelessness of tradition and the dawn of a new year, similar to the freshness of a rose.

The American Rose Society was founded in 1892, and it first began as a trade society for florists.  The first rose show was in 1900 in New York City and judges were left to their own devices of determining which rose was considered the “best” rose.  Of course, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so these selections are purely based on the inclinations of each of the judges.  Today, the American Rose Society lives on with chapters all around the country.  The San Francisco Rose Society is notable for its work in continuing to cultivate interest and passion for the love of roses.

Well, I have an all-time favorite designer, and these gowns are what every fairy tale would include: the ultimate princess style gown.  The unique and handmade designs of Teuta Matoshi Duriqi are just stunning, down to every detail and color combination and cut of each gown.  I am in love with every gown she designs; the designs have a whimsical style about them emphasizing the female figure, as if they belong in a Disney film, except I’d rather see them on ladies at Fashion Week.  For being handmade, the price range is not out of control either: most of these gowns are in the $1,000 range (an incredible price for atelier style work!) and you can purchase them through her website, and a showroom is now open in New York City where you can book an appointment for your fitting.  I  adore these styles and am incredibly in awe of each and every gown…